SYMPTOMS OF INNER PEACE
by Saskia Davis
Be on the lookout for symptoms of inner peace. The hearts of a great many already have been exposed; and it is possible that people, everywhere, could come down with it in epidemic proportions. This could pose a serious threat to what, up to now, has been a fairly stable condition of conflict in the world.
Signs & Symptoms of Inner Peace
A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than on fears based on past experiences
An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment
A loss of interest in judging other people
A loss of interest in judging self
A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others
A loss of interest in conflict
A loss of ability to worry
Frequent, overwhelming episodes of appreciation
Contented feelings of connectedness with others & nature
Frequent attacks of smiling
An increasing tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen
An increased susceptibility to love extended by others and the uncontrollable urge to extend it
WARNING
If you have some or all of the above symptoms, be advised that your condition of inner peace may be too far advanced to be curable. If you are exposed to anyone exhibiting any of these symptoms, remain exposed only at your own risk. © 1984
Friday, March 25, 2011
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Progression Turning To Regression In My Life
I was so excited about my progress & the idea of returning to work in February. The therapy I was receiving was a huge help in this progression. Funny how fast progression can turn to regression.
Thanks to the system, I have not had a therapy session since February. Since my last session I have been waiting for approval to be accepted for rehabilitation services that my disability provider offers. To this day I am still waiting to hear from them regarding the funding they will provide for me to continue my therapy. These services will also work with me and my employer in making my return to work plan. The waiting is getting the best of me. Why didn't they offer these services right from the beginning of my long term disability? Instead they waited until my initial claim expired to offer this to me.
I am crying a lot lately. Alone, cut off from the world, isolated in my room, by choice, of course. The will do to anything is completely absent from my life. I do not want to get out of bed in the morning. I do not want to make any effort to be involved in life right now. Even the efforts of doing things for my friends brings me no pleasure. What happened to me? I've lost myself in this depression. I can't find or see the, once, positive & optimistic self I once was. I miss me.
I can't get over this feeling of the longer I am off work the more people at work are going to judge me. I know to be judged for something like this sounds ridiculous, but it happens. This judgment is a true sign of the stigma attached to mental health. I love my job and the corporation I work for, but, what seems to me, to be lack of support, is really affecting my feeling of self worth.
People do not seem to understand how badly I want to feel better and get back to normalcy of work, friends & family. I have done everything in my power & what has been requested of me to getting better & past all of this. It is no fault of my own that my progress is being hampered by process. Not only is it being hampered, but I truly believe it is causing me to regress.
I feel worse today, in a different way, than I did when all of this began. Im losing touch with everything. I feel nothing, but feel too much all at the same time. I want to call out for help, reach out to a friend, but I feel like I have burdened so many people with all of this. If I were them I would be tired of my shit too. I just want all of it to be over.
I want to be happy again. I want to be positive & optimistic about my life. I keep telling myself that this is just another bump in the road & that this, too, will pass, but those words & thoughts aren't bringing me the comfort that they use to.
The light at the end of the tunnel is no longer in view & Im completely lost on what to do. Patience needs to become my friend as I continue this journey.
Thanks to the system, I have not had a therapy session since February. Since my last session I have been waiting for approval to be accepted for rehabilitation services that my disability provider offers. To this day I am still waiting to hear from them regarding the funding they will provide for me to continue my therapy. These services will also work with me and my employer in making my return to work plan. The waiting is getting the best of me. Why didn't they offer these services right from the beginning of my long term disability? Instead they waited until my initial claim expired to offer this to me.
I am crying a lot lately. Alone, cut off from the world, isolated in my room, by choice, of course. The will do to anything is completely absent from my life. I do not want to get out of bed in the morning. I do not want to make any effort to be involved in life right now. Even the efforts of doing things for my friends brings me no pleasure. What happened to me? I've lost myself in this depression. I can't find or see the, once, positive & optimistic self I once was. I miss me.
I can't get over this feeling of the longer I am off work the more people at work are going to judge me. I know to be judged for something like this sounds ridiculous, but it happens. This judgment is a true sign of the stigma attached to mental health. I love my job and the corporation I work for, but, what seems to me, to be lack of support, is really affecting my feeling of self worth.
People do not seem to understand how badly I want to feel better and get back to normalcy of work, friends & family. I have done everything in my power & what has been requested of me to getting better & past all of this. It is no fault of my own that my progress is being hampered by process. Not only is it being hampered, but I truly believe it is causing me to regress.
I feel worse today, in a different way, than I did when all of this began. Im losing touch with everything. I feel nothing, but feel too much all at the same time. I want to call out for help, reach out to a friend, but I feel like I have burdened so many people with all of this. If I were them I would be tired of my shit too. I just want all of it to be over.
I want to be happy again. I want to be positive & optimistic about my life. I keep telling myself that this is just another bump in the road & that this, too, will pass, but those words & thoughts aren't bringing me the comfort that they use to.
The light at the end of the tunnel is no longer in view & Im completely lost on what to do. Patience needs to become my friend as I continue this journey.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
My Sister Revisits The Past
I have shared this story with you in previous blog posts (Possible Closure After Two Decades: A Families Worst Nightmare, Possible Closure After Two Decades: A Families Worst Nightmare Part 2).
I am so proud of my sister for sharing her story with the world. The courage & strength it had to take to revisit this horrible event in your life, is inspirational.
Here is her segment on CBC Winnipeg News from Tuesday, March 22.
I am so proud of my sister for sharing her story with the world. The courage & strength it had to take to revisit this horrible event in your life, is inspirational.
Here is her segment on CBC Winnipeg News from Tuesday, March 22.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Now Tell Me Something Positive
We all come across people in our life that always seem to do nothing but complain. Maybe most of them do not even realize they are being negative & would love a little reminder that their positivity is lacking.
Right after they finish complaining, say to them, "Now tell me something positive" Some people have no idea how negative they have become. That is what they surround themselves with, day in and day out, so it is just a way of life for them. Being given a reminder, they may realize that is not how they want to project and start working on becoming more positive.
Just my thoughts.
(picture & concept from http://www.rileywynnhr.com )
Right after they finish complaining, say to them, "Now tell me something positive" Some people have no idea how negative they have become. That is what they surround themselves with, day in and day out, so it is just a way of life for them. Being given a reminder, they may realize that is not how they want to project and start working on becoming more positive.
Just my thoughts.
(picture & concept from http://www.rileywynnhr.com )
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Most Common Face in The World
National Geographic Magazine released a video clip, below, showing the most "typical" human face on the planet as part of its series on the human race called "Population 7 billion."
Monday, March 7, 2011
Internatioinal Women's Day - March 8, 2011
I’m writing to let you know about a fabulous women’s event being held tomorrow.
It’s called International Women’s Day ~ “This is Our Time". Check it out ~ www.InternationalWomensDay.org. Tomorrow there’s going to be a global celebration of women past, present, and future ~ the largest gathering of women in the history of the world!
The Women’s Information Network (WIN) is the women’s global community that’s presenting LIVE celebrations in 10 cities across America that will be simultaneously live-streamed to women in 176 countries! www.theWINonline.com
I love the fact that women will be celebrating and honoring women all over the world on the same day! I’m going to participate and thought you might want to hear about it.
Friday, March 4, 2011
How To Say 'PEACE' in Other Languages (A Day Of Peace March 4th)
Peace: a state of harmony, the absence of hostility.
Abenaqui = Olakamigenoka
Alabama = Ittimokla
Albanian = La Paqe
Algonquin = Wâki Ijiwebis-I
Amharic = Írq
Arabic = Salam
Aranés = La Patz
Armenian = Khanhaghutyun
Basque = Bake
Bemba = Mutenden
Blackfoot = Innaihtsi'iyi
Bulgarian = Mír Bosnian
Buli = Goom-jigi
Carolinian = Gúnnammwey
Catalán = La Pau
Chinese = Pingan
Choctaw = Achukma
Chuuk = Kunammwey
Comanche = Tsumukikatu
Cree = Wetaskiwin
Creole = Lapé Haitian
Duala = Musango
Dutch = Vrede Afrikaans
Ekari = Muka-muka
English = Peace
Esperanto = Paco
Estonian = Rahu
Fanagolo = Kutula
Farsi = Ashtee
Finnish = Rauha
French = La Paix
Gaelic = Sìth
Gaelic = Fois Scots
Gafuleya Chontal = Aylobaha
German = Der Frieden
Gikuyu = Thayu
Greek = Iri'ni
Guaraní = Ñerane'i
Gujarati = Shanti Bengali
Hausa = Lùmana
Hawaiian = Maluhia
Hebrew = Shalom
Hungarian = Béke
Icelandic = Friður
Igbo = Udo
Ila = Chibanda
Indonesian = Damai
Indonesian = Rerdamaian
Irish = Síocháin
Japanese = Heiwa
Javanese = Rukun
Khmer = Soksang
Koasati = Ilifayka
Korean = Pyong'hwa
Kurdish = Hasîtî
Lakhota = Wolakota
Latin = Pax
Latvian = Miers
Lithuainian = Taika
Luxemburgish = Fridden
Magindanaon = Kalilíntad
Malgache = Fandriampahalemana
Maltese = Paçi
Manobo = Linew
Maori = Rangima'arie
Mapudungun = Uvchin
Maranao = Diakatra
Maya = Ets'a'an Olal
Micmac = Wôntôkóde
Mongo-Nkundu = Boóto
Munsterian = Echnahcaton
Navajo = K'é
Nepali = Saanti
Nhengatu = Tecócatú
North Alaska Inuktitut = Tutkiun
Northwest Alaska Inupiat Inuktitut = Kiñuiñak
Norwegian = Fred Danish
Ntomba = Nye
Nyanja = Mtendere Chewa
Otomi = Hmethó
Palauan = Búdech
Pali = Nirudho
Papago/Pima = Dodolimdag
Pashto = Amniat
Perce = Éyewi Nez
Persian = Solh Dari
Pig Latin = eace-pay
Polish = Pokój
Ponapean = Meleilei
Portuguese = A Paz Galician
Rapanui = Kiba-kiba
Romanian = La Pace Italian
Ruanda = Nimuhóre
Sa Lao = Kwam
Sa'a = Däilama
Samoan = Filemu
Sesotho = Khotso
Setswana = Kagiso
Sioux = Wo'okeyeh
Somali = Nabad -Da
Spanish = La Paz
Swahili = Amaní
Tagalog = Mabuhay
Tagalog Filipino = Kapayapaan
Tahitian = Hau
Tamil = Amaithi
Thai = Santipap
Tiaykuy Quechua = Sonqo
Tibetan = Shîte
Tlingit = Li-k'ei
Tonga = Melino
Turkish = Sulh
Turkish = Barish
Twi-Akan = Asomdwee
Uighur = Saq
Urdu = Aman Malay
Usilal Kékchí = Tuktuquil
Vietnamese = Hoa Bình
Welsh = Hedd
Wintu = Mina
Xhosa = Uxolo
Yiddish = Sholim
Yoruba = Alaáfía
Zapoteco = Layéni
Zulu = Ukuthula
Abenaqui = Olakamigenoka
Alabama = Ittimokla
Albanian = La Paqe
Algonquin = Wâki Ijiwebis-I
Amharic = Írq
Arabic = Salam
Aranés = La Patz
Armenian = Khanhaghutyun
Basque = Bake
Bemba = Mutenden
Blackfoot = Innaihtsi'iyi
Bulgarian = Mír Bosnian
Buli = Goom-jigi
Carolinian = Gúnnammwey
Catalán = La Pau
Chinese = Pingan
Choctaw = Achukma
Chuuk = Kunammwey
Comanche = Tsumukikatu
Cree = Wetaskiwin
Creole = Lapé Haitian
Duala = Musango
Dutch = Vrede Afrikaans
Ekari = Muka-muka
English = Peace
Esperanto = Paco
Estonian = Rahu
Fanagolo = Kutula
Farsi = Ashtee
Finnish = Rauha
French = La Paix
Gaelic = Sìth
Gaelic = Fois Scots
Gafuleya Chontal = Aylobaha
German = Der Frieden
Gikuyu = Thayu
Greek = Iri'ni
Guaraní = Ñerane'i
Gujarati = Shanti Bengali
Hausa = Lùmana
Hawaiian = Maluhia
Hebrew = Shalom
Hungarian = Béke
Icelandic = Friður
Igbo = Udo
Ila = Chibanda
Indonesian = Damai
Indonesian = Rerdamaian
Irish = Síocháin
Japanese = Heiwa
Javanese = Rukun
Khmer = Soksang
Koasati = Ilifayka
Korean = Pyong'hwa
Kurdish = Hasîtî
Lakhota = Wolakota
Latin = Pax
Latvian = Miers
Lithuainian = Taika
Luxemburgish = Fridden
Magindanaon = Kalilíntad
Malgache = Fandriampahalemana
Maltese = Paçi
Manobo = Linew
Maori = Rangima'arie
Mapudungun = Uvchin
Maranao = Diakatra
Maya = Ets'a'an Olal
Micmac = Wôntôkóde
Mongo-Nkundu = Boóto
Munsterian = Echnahcaton
Navajo = K'é
Nepali = Saanti
Nhengatu = Tecócatú
North Alaska Inuktitut = Tutkiun
Northwest Alaska Inupiat Inuktitut = Kiñuiñak
Norwegian = Fred Danish
Ntomba = Nye
Nyanja = Mtendere Chewa
Otomi = Hmethó
Palauan = Búdech
Pali = Nirudho
Papago/Pima = Dodolimdag
Pashto = Amniat
Perce = Éyewi Nez
Persian = Solh Dari
Pig Latin = eace-pay
Polish = Pokój
Ponapean = Meleilei
Portuguese = A Paz Galician
Rapanui = Kiba-kiba
Romanian = La Pace Italian
Ruanda = Nimuhóre
Sa Lao = Kwam
Sa'a = Däilama
Samoan = Filemu
Sesotho = Khotso
Setswana = Kagiso
Sioux = Wo'okeyeh
Somali = Nabad -Da
Spanish = La Paz
Swahili = Amaní
Tagalog = Mabuhay
Tagalog Filipino = Kapayapaan
Tahitian = Hau
Tamil = Amaithi
Thai = Santipap
Tiaykuy Quechua = Sonqo
Tibetan = Shîte
Tlingit = Li-k'ei
Tonga = Melino
Turkish = Sulh
Turkish = Barish
Twi-Akan = Asomdwee
Uighur = Saq
Urdu = Aman Malay
Usilal Kékchí = Tuktuquil
Vietnamese = Hoa Bình
Welsh = Hedd
Wintu = Mina
Xhosa = Uxolo
Yiddish = Sholim
Yoruba = Alaáfía
Zapoteco = Layéni
Zulu = Ukuthula
Thursday, March 3, 2011
15 Things You Can Do for 'A Day Of Peace' - Friday, March 4th
Below are 15 things you can do to participate in 'A Day of Peace' to be held tomorrow Friday, March 4th. These are things we should practice doing all year round to help make the world a better, more peaceful, place.
1. Say something nice to everyone you meet today.
2. Smile and say "Hello" to people you do not know.
3. Say a prayer or whisper a kind wish for someone
4. Compliment a stranger
5. Praise generously
6. Show respect equally to all human beings
7. Give someone a chance to prove him or herself
8. Encourage someone to pursue their dream
9. Allow someone to let his or her light shine
10. Smile at someone who’s sad
11. Smile at strangers
12. Offer sincere, kind words to someone who’s hurting
13. Inspire someone to be the best that they can be
14. Give someone the benefit of the doubt
15. Replace an angry or bitter thought toward someone with a loving thought (or at least try)
1. Say something nice to everyone you meet today.
2. Smile and say "Hello" to people you do not know.
3. Say a prayer or whisper a kind wish for someone
4. Compliment a stranger
5. Praise generously
6. Show respect equally to all human beings
7. Give someone a chance to prove him or herself
8. Encourage someone to pursue their dream
9. Allow someone to let his or her light shine
10. Smile at someone who’s sad
11. Smile at strangers
12. Offer sincere, kind words to someone who’s hurting
13. Inspire someone to be the best that they can be
14. Give someone the benefit of the doubt
15. Replace an angry or bitter thought toward someone with a loving thought (or at least try)
Monday, February 28, 2011
A Day Of Peace - Friday, March 4th
Time: Friday, March 4 at 12:00am - March 5 at 12:00am
Location: Worldwide
Created By: Stephen Danger Shoemaker
Please read the whole thing!
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I have an idea... for a day of peace. Wouldn't it be amazing?
Just one day in the year where we all held our tongues.
A day where we ignored others' shortcomings and made a valiant effort to be kind and understanding.
...A day where we all got along. It's sad that we are all at a point where we should do this, but it's even sadder to know that we easily could every day, but refuse to do so.
My proposition is simple:
One day, March 4th, we all stick to three simple rules that will make the world a little bit more bearable. Feel free to partake in this before and long after then; the only reason I have the event set that far into the future is because I want word to spread and allow this to have as big of an impact as possible.
This event is to take place everywhere we go in the world, preferably all the time.
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Rule #1.
Say not a single unkind thing about anyone or anything. If at all possible, try not to even think a nasty thought. If we do, reflect on why it was that we thought to say it in the first place.
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Rule #2.
Show everyone we cross paths with some genuine human compassion. Be it with a smile or kind words, just spread some love.
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Rule #3.
Make not one person the exception to the rule. Not everyone deserves to have roses thrown at their feet and have a holiday in their honor, but nobody deserves to feel alone. Reach out. Talk to someone new. Care about them, and we will be cared for in return.
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Please invite everyone on your friends list. Every single person, regardless of how often you talk to them, if ever at all. This can be done very simply and quickly by pasting this into your address bar and hitting enter. This will select all of your friends and you can then choose to send the invitation:
javascript:elms=document.getElementById('friends').getElementsByTagName('li');for(var fid in elms){if(typeof elms[fid] === 'object'){fs.click(elms[fid]);}}
There seems to be some confusion about this, so....
PLEASE ADD A PERSONAL MESSAGE TO THE INVITE TELLING THE PEOPLE TO CLICK ON THE EVENT TO SEE THE INFO.
Seriously, make sure you do that, because most of the "Not Attending" people didn't know to click on this and just dismissed it.
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Please spread this as much as possible, and please actually attempt to do this.
I know many of us will simply accept the invite with no intention to give this any genuine effort, but "Attend" anyway, not to look like a good person, but to look like we aren't a bad one. And for those of us who do that, please just remove yourself from the event.
This can be big. If we all band together, well, maybe we can all start living a little bit nicer lives. Maybe this won't work for more than one day; maybe it will. I honestly don't know what will happen, but what I do know is this: if we can get at least one day of happiness and peace out of this, well, I'd more than consider that a success.
This is not intended to be a "Let's be nice for one day and go back to our old ways the day after" kind of thing. It is meant to give us all a little more incentive to be better people.
This is not a hippie or a religious movement. This is just an attempt at brightening the world up a bit.
You have no reason why you cant do it. None of us do.
Thank you all for your kind words, support, and enthusiasm,
~Stephen Shoemaker
Please help this message spread to as many as possible.
Here is the event on Facebook: CLICK HERE
Location: Worldwide
Created By: Stephen Danger Shoemaker
Please read the whole thing!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I have an idea... for a day of peace. Wouldn't it be amazing?
Just one day in the year where we all held our tongues.
A day where we ignored others' shortcomings and made a valiant effort to be kind and understanding.
...A day where we all got along. It's sad that we are all at a point where we should do this, but it's even sadder to know that we easily could every day, but refuse to do so.
My proposition is simple:
One day, March 4th, we all stick to three simple rules that will make the world a little bit more bearable. Feel free to partake in this before and long after then; the only reason I have the event set that far into the future is because I want word to spread and allow this to have as big of an impact as possible.
This event is to take place everywhere we go in the world, preferably all the time.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Rule #1.
Say not a single unkind thing about anyone or anything. If at all possible, try not to even think a nasty thought. If we do, reflect on why it was that we thought to say it in the first place.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Rule #2.
Show everyone we cross paths with some genuine human compassion. Be it with a smile or kind words, just spread some love.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Rule #3.
Make not one person the exception to the rule. Not everyone deserves to have roses thrown at their feet and have a holiday in their honor, but nobody deserves to feel alone. Reach out. Talk to someone new. Care about them, and we will be cared for in return.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Please invite everyone on your friends list. Every single person, regardless of how often you talk to them, if ever at all. This can be done very simply and quickly by pasting this into your address bar and hitting enter. This will select all of your friends and you can then choose to send the invitation:
javascript:elms=document.getElementById('friends').getElementsByTagName('li');for(var fid in elms){if(typeof elms[fid] === 'object'){fs.click(elms[fid]);}}
There seems to be some confusion about this, so....
PLEASE ADD A PERSONAL MESSAGE TO THE INVITE TELLING THE PEOPLE TO CLICK ON THE EVENT TO SEE THE INFO.
Seriously, make sure you do that, because most of the "Not Attending" people didn't know to click on this and just dismissed it.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
Please spread this as much as possible, and please actually attempt to do this.
I know many of us will simply accept the invite with no intention to give this any genuine effort, but "Attend" anyway, not to look like a good person, but to look like we aren't a bad one. And for those of us who do that, please just remove yourself from the event.
This can be big. If we all band together, well, maybe we can all start living a little bit nicer lives. Maybe this won't work for more than one day; maybe it will. I honestly don't know what will happen, but what I do know is this: if we can get at least one day of happiness and peace out of this, well, I'd more than consider that a success.
This is not intended to be a "Let's be nice for one day and go back to our old ways the day after" kind of thing. It is meant to give us all a little more incentive to be better people.
This is not a hippie or a religious movement. This is just an attempt at brightening the world up a bit.
You have no reason why you cant do it. None of us do.
Thank you all for your kind words, support, and enthusiasm,
~Stephen Shoemaker
Please help this message spread to as many as possible.
Here is the event on Facebook: CLICK HERE
Sunday, February 27, 2011
The Oscars: Behind The Scenes with James Franco
I do not know if this is a first or not in Oscar history, but the host, James Franco is posting video live from the oscars from behind the scenes. The one below is from the start of the night, click more at the end to see all the videos as they are posted. Awesomeness!
Reactive Candy's Top 5 Best & Worst Dressed at the Oscars!
It is always exciting to watch the celebrities arrive for the biggest award show of the season, the Academy Awards. The red carpet is probably just as fun. Getting to see what everyone is wearing is just as big of an event for some, then the actual show itself.
Here are my top 5 picks for best & worst dressed of the evening:
TOP 5 BEST DRESSED
Mila Kunis was stunning in this lavender Elie Saab dress. She has come along way from the 15 year old girl on 'That 70's Show'
Halle Berry never disappoints. Breath taking in this drop-dead gorgeous Marchesa gown.
Anne Hathaway, this years host of the Academy Awards, was the lady in red, in this red hot strapless Valentino.
Helen Mirren always elegant in this silk gray gown by Vivienne Westwood.
Jennifer Hudson, showing off her new, sexy curves in this tangerine Versace gown. It complements her skin color perfectly.
TOP 5 WORST DRESSED
Jennifer Lawrence looked like she threw on her 'Baywatch' evening gown! Had no idea Calvin Klein had a 'Baywatch' line. Meh!
Melissa Leo, good thing she can act better than she dresses. Hire a new stylist, this Marc Bouwer dress looks like something my grandmother uses on her dining room table.
Cate Blanchett wore a Givency Couture dress with coral growing on it or something. I have no words for how I feel about this dress. It speaks for itself!
Marisa Tomei in this 1950 couture Charles James dress from Lily et Cie. When I first saw this dress, I thought the top was stunning, then it spanned down to the mess attached to the bottom of this dress.
Florence Welch in this lemon-yellow Valentino reminds me of a bad bridesmaid dress.
Here are my top 5 picks for best & worst dressed of the evening:
TOP 5 BEST DRESSED
Mila Kunis was stunning in this lavender Elie Saab dress. She has come along way from the 15 year old girl on 'That 70's Show'
Halle Berry never disappoints. Breath taking in this drop-dead gorgeous Marchesa gown.
Anne Hathaway, this years host of the Academy Awards, was the lady in red, in this red hot strapless Valentino.
Helen Mirren always elegant in this silk gray gown by Vivienne Westwood.
Jennifer Hudson, showing off her new, sexy curves in this tangerine Versace gown. It complements her skin color perfectly.
TOP 5 WORST DRESSED
Jennifer Lawrence looked like she threw on her 'Baywatch' evening gown! Had no idea Calvin Klein had a 'Baywatch' line. Meh!
Melissa Leo, good thing she can act better than she dresses. Hire a new stylist, this Marc Bouwer dress looks like something my grandmother uses on her dining room table.
Cate Blanchett wore a Givency Couture dress with coral growing on it or something. I have no words for how I feel about this dress. It speaks for itself!
Marisa Tomei in this 1950 couture Charles James dress from Lily et Cie. When I first saw this dress, I thought the top was stunning, then it spanned down to the mess attached to the bottom of this dress.
Florence Welch in this lemon-yellow Valentino reminds me of a bad bridesmaid dress.
Saturday, February 26, 2011
James Franco Hosting The Oscars: Mmmmmm
Im a huge fan of Oscar night. I look forward to the last Sunday in February every year. I watch all the movies, make my predictions and patiently wait for this night.
This year is no different, except for one thing, JAMES FRANCO!!!! Yes,yes, yes...I love this guy. He is an amazing actor, super smart, very creative & artistic, and of course, SUPER SEXY! This will be the first time EVER that the host has been one fine piece of eye candy. It is going to be an amazing night! Don't you agree?
Oh yeah..Anne Hathway won't be too bad either! LOL
This year is no different, except for one thing, JAMES FRANCO!!!! Yes,yes, yes...I love this guy. He is an amazing actor, super smart, very creative & artistic, and of course, SUPER SEXY! This will be the first time EVER that the host has been one fine piece of eye candy. It is going to be an amazing night! Don't you agree?
Oh yeah..Anne Hathway won't be too bad either! LOL
It's Almost 'Oscar Sunday' - Reel of 'Best Picture' Nominees
I am a big movie buff. I make a point of watching all the best picture nominees every year before 'Oscar Sunday'. This year was no different. You can click here to see my predictions for this years Oscars.
There were so many great movies this year, it is a difficult choice to just choose one. Im going with my heart and standing by 'The King's Speech'. This was absolutely this best movie I saw this year and it deserves all the accolades it is receiving.
Below is a great reel of all the 'Best Picture' nominees. Take a watch & then let me know where your vote for 'Best Picture' lies.
There were so many great movies this year, it is a difficult choice to just choose one. Im going with my heart and standing by 'The King's Speech'. This was absolutely this best movie I saw this year and it deserves all the accolades it is receiving.
Below is a great reel of all the 'Best Picture' nominees. Take a watch & then let me know where your vote for 'Best Picture' lies.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Bullying - Signs To Watch For (Pink Shirt Day 2011)
Bullying
Do you know if your child is being bullied? Here are some signs to watch for:
* Feelings of rejection
* Low self-esteem
* Poor grades at school
* Isolation, withdrawal from group activities at school and outside of school
* Agressiveness, nervousness, extreme sensitivity
* Fear or refusal to go to school
What is bullying…
Psychologists define bullying as a power relationship carried on by one individual or a group of individuals towards another person. Bullying does not necessarily need to be brutal or physical violence. Rumours, threats and hurtful words also lead to feelings of rejection.
What does bullying look like?
Teasing, hair pulling, pushing, pinching or touching without consent, insulting somebody by making crude, sexist, racist or homophobic remarks
Spreading rumours
Threatening looks, unsightly gestures
Writing unpleasant things about somebody (on paper or by email)
Threatening or scaring somebody
Stealing, “taxing” (extortion of money and personal items)
Targets for bullying:
Choice of clothing
Physical differences or faults (fast, slow, big or small development)
Distinctive characteristics of parents (different education from other parents of the region, religion, origin, language)
Nutritional habits
Speech impediments
Introverted personality, solitary person
What Should Children Do?
Do not answer back with verbal violence
Ignore the insults by walking with your head up high
If you witness bullying towards another student, it is best to immediately refer what you have seen to an adult.
What Should Parents Do?
Discuss the problem with your child and try to obtain the name of the bully
Discuss the problem with the teacher and the principal of the school
Advise the child, but try not to do everything in his or her place.
Guide the child towards out-of-school activities
Do not encourage verbal or physical violence as a suitable means of defense
Do not trivialize the problem. Take it seriously!
(Source: Mia Lambert, Jeunesse J’ecoute and Annie Fernandez, Le Journal de Quebec)
Do you know if your child is being bullied? Here are some signs to watch for:
* Feelings of rejection
* Low self-esteem
* Poor grades at school
* Isolation, withdrawal from group activities at school and outside of school
* Agressiveness, nervousness, extreme sensitivity
* Fear or refusal to go to school
What is bullying…
Psychologists define bullying as a power relationship carried on by one individual or a group of individuals towards another person. Bullying does not necessarily need to be brutal or physical violence. Rumours, threats and hurtful words also lead to feelings of rejection.
What does bullying look like?
Teasing, hair pulling, pushing, pinching or touching without consent, insulting somebody by making crude, sexist, racist or homophobic remarks
Spreading rumours
Threatening looks, unsightly gestures
Writing unpleasant things about somebody (on paper or by email)
Threatening or scaring somebody
Stealing, “taxing” (extortion of money and personal items)
Targets for bullying:
Choice of clothing
Physical differences or faults (fast, slow, big or small development)
Distinctive characteristics of parents (different education from other parents of the region, religion, origin, language)
Nutritional habits
Speech impediments
Introverted personality, solitary person
What Should Children Do?
Do not answer back with verbal violence
Ignore the insults by walking with your head up high
If you witness bullying towards another student, it is best to immediately refer what you have seen to an adult.
What Should Parents Do?
Discuss the problem with your child and try to obtain the name of the bully
Discuss the problem with the teacher and the principal of the school
Advise the child, but try not to do everything in his or her place.
Guide the child towards out-of-school activities
Do not encourage verbal or physical violence as a suitable means of defense
Do not trivialize the problem. Take it seriously!
(Source: Mia Lambert, Jeunesse J’ecoute and Annie Fernandez, Le Journal de Quebec)
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Depression: Common Signs & Symptoms
Depression is a serious medical illness; it’s not something that you make up in your head. It’s more than just feeling "down in the dumps" or "blue" for a few days. The symptoms of depression are much more severe and debilitating. Depression is characterized by feeling "down" and "low" and "hopeless" for weeks at a time. Many factors can contribute to the onset of depression, including the presence of other physical disorders, stress, poor nutrition, physical illness, personal loss and relationship difficulties. Depression isn’t always easy to detect, and people with depressive conditions do not all experience the same symptoms. It may be expressed through lack of appetite or overeating; insomnia or an unnatural desire to sleep; the abuse of drugs and alcohol; sexual promiscuity; or hostile, aggressive, or risk-taking behavior.
* Persistent sad, anxious or "empty" feelings
* Feelings of hopelessness and/or pessimism
* Feelings of guilt, worthlessness and/or helplessness
* Irritability, restlessness
* Loss of interest in activities or hobbies once pleasurable, including sex
* Fatigue and decreased energy
* Difficulty concentrating, remembering details and making decisions
* Insomnia, early–morning wakefulness, or excessive sleeping
* Overeating, or appetite loss
* Thoughts of suicide, suicide attempts
* Persistent aches or pains, headaches, cramps or digestive problems that do not ease even with treatment
* Persistent sad, anxious or "empty" feelings
* Feelings of hopelessness and/or pessimism
* Feelings of guilt, worthlessness and/or helplessness
* Irritability, restlessness
* Loss of interest in activities or hobbies once pleasurable, including sex
* Fatigue and decreased energy
* Difficulty concentrating, remembering details and making decisions
* Insomnia, early–morning wakefulness, or excessive sleeping
* Overeating, or appetite loss
* Thoughts of suicide, suicide attempts
* Persistent aches or pains, headaches, cramps or digestive problems that do not ease even with treatment
Mental Health Illness: Fact vs Fiction
FICTION: People with a mental illness are often violent.
FACT: Actually, the vast majority of people with mental health conditions are no more violent than anyone else. People with mental illness are much more likely to be the victims of crime.
FICTION: Mental illness is a sign of weakness.
FACT: A mental illness is not caused by personal weakness—nor can it be cured by positive thinking or willpower - proper treatment is needed.
FICTION: Only military personnel who have been in combat can suffer from PTSD.
FACT: While PTSD is prevalent in men and women who have seen combat, experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event can trigger PTSD, including violent personal assaults such as rape or robbery, natural or human-caused disasters, or accidents.
FICTION: People with a mental illness will never get better.
FACT: For some people, a mental illness may be a lifelong condition, like diabetes. But as with diabetes, proper treatment enables many people with a mental illness to lead fulfilling and productive lives.
FICTION: Children don’t suffer from mental illness.
FACT: Millions of children are affected by depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses. As a matter of fact, 1 in 10 children suffer from a diagnosable mental illness. Getting treatment is essential.
FICTION: “Mental illness can’t affect me!”
FACT: Mental illness can affect anyone. While some illnesses have a genetic risk, mental illness can affect people of all ages, races and income levels, whether or not there is a family history.
FACT: Actually, the vast majority of people with mental health conditions are no more violent than anyone else. People with mental illness are much more likely to be the victims of crime.
FICTION: Mental illness is a sign of weakness.
FACT: A mental illness is not caused by personal weakness—nor can it be cured by positive thinking or willpower - proper treatment is needed.
FICTION: Only military personnel who have been in combat can suffer from PTSD.
FACT: While PTSD is prevalent in men and women who have seen combat, experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event can trigger PTSD, including violent personal assaults such as rape or robbery, natural or human-caused disasters, or accidents.
FICTION: People with a mental illness will never get better.
FACT: For some people, a mental illness may be a lifelong condition, like diabetes. But as with diabetes, proper treatment enables many people with a mental illness to lead fulfilling and productive lives.
FICTION: Children don’t suffer from mental illness.
FACT: Millions of children are affected by depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses. As a matter of fact, 1 in 10 children suffer from a diagnosable mental illness. Getting treatment is essential.
FICTION: “Mental illness can’t affect me!”
FACT: Mental illness can affect anyone. While some illnesses have a genetic risk, mental illness can affect people of all ages, races and income levels, whether or not there is a family history.
Tuesday Twitter Hop
1. Add your Twitter URL to the Linky below: when you add it, it will automatically appear on everyone’s page that posts this Linky so you do not need to add it more than once
2. Click on the top 3 Twitter Names and follow them: The top 3 will be the hostesses; Shining2Save, Living on Love and Cents and Luxury Living Frugal Style, we will follow you back.
3. Follow as many people on Twitter as you like: Be sure to leave comments or send them a message so they will know where to follow you back.
You do not have to make a post to join: but it is always a plus if you do so everyone else can see and join in on the fun!
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